Going to college, or just leaving your parents house you
will probably live with roommates at some point. One of the biggest things that
ruins a friendship with your roommate is washing the dishes. People just don’t see
eye to eye about when and or how to wash the dishes. The video below shows the absolutely
most effective way to wash dishes, and will stop a lot of passive aggressive arguments.
This video is just a joke, please don’t be the roommate that never washes their dishes!
For most of my life now I have played team sports that have required road trips in some shape or form. Since the start my collegiate career way back in 2010 for TCU’s Lacrosse team I’ve learned that long road trips are inevitable. Over the years as a player and now as a coach for Griz Lacrosse, I thought I would share some tips and tricks on how to make a team road trip easier.
Pack The Night Before
Personally, packing is not the most exciting part of a trip. Coaches demand that we be ready to go at a certain time (usually before the sun comes up). I have found that packing the night before prevents me from forgetting anything in those early morning hours when I am not thinking clearly. In addition, line your bags up at the door so you can have a smooth exit out of your apartment or dorm.
Carry Both Card and Cash
To get to a game you will have to travel though the middle of nowhere. And in the middle of nowhere often times you will find technological conveniences are nonexistent. It is crucial to have cash and not just a card on a road trip in case the store where you are trying to buy snacks is still stuck in the ‘50s. Being hungry on the bus is miserable.
Portable Chargers are Worth Their Weight in Gold
Missoula to Portland on a bus is anywhere from 8 to 12 hours depending on external factors. So even if you charge all your electronics the night before, you will run out of battery life on a haul like that. For $25 to $50 you can get a good quality portable charger that will keep your electronics charged and you blissfully entertained while the hours go by.
Bring Food and Drinks on The Bus
One of the reasons I pack and line up all my stuff the night before is to save time in the morning. With that extra time, I always run and grab food and coffee to bring on the bus. Doing this will save you money over the length of the trip, since prices in food vary from location to location. Additionally, you don’t always know when and where the team will stop for food, having your own will prevent any unforeseen problems.
Bring a Pillow is Key
This one is a little self-explanatory. Not all buses or cars have comfortable seats or headrests. In my case, the Griz Lacrosse team bus has some hard armrests. I always bring a pillow on bus trips. It not only makes the ride more comfortable, but I avoid dealing with hotel pillows that I am not used to.
In order to succeed in business you need to secure a well-paying job; in order to land a well-paying job you need experience; in order to gain experience, a company must take a chance and hire the young college graduate. It’s an age-old dilemma, yet somehow college graduates still end up being turned down by employers because they want someone with experience. We’ve all heardor asked the question, “how am I supposed to get experience if no one hires me?”
We’ve all heard the success stories, the ones our professors tell us about where graduates with bachelor’s degrees land jobs with some of the top companies in the nation. We all have similar potential and the education to obtain these same internships that lead to those hired positions, but not all of us will because there are only a few positions offered and thousands of students applying for them.
So, what do the people who don’t get the Google, Nike, Deloitte or KPMG internships (the ones that lead to a future hire) do to be noticed, seen or to simply stand out? When GPA’s don’t seem to matter and you already have a LinkedIn bio to tell people why you’re a great hire, how can we be top-notch and different?
For those of us who didn’t get the foot-in-the-door job/internship, what can we do to stand out in a world where experience is still the primary driving factor behind a job offer? We still have to fight for our place in the conference room. We still have to prove to our superiors, colleagues and future employers that we’re not just another one of “those millennials”. You know the ones I’m talking about – the lazy, know-it-all, millennials that also have no work ethic. In order to avoid some of those stereotypes, here are some tips from my own experience, as well as some of my peers, on how to stand out.
Dress for success. The ever-expanding tech and startup world may allow for a more relaxed and casual dress code, but many companies still want their employees to look and act professionally.
Be confident, but not a know-it-all. Just because you understand technology and the internet does not make you smarter or better than your colleagues.
Don’t overstate your accomplishments. You know what you are and aren’t capable of. Don’t say you’re an experienced website designer just because you’ve logged into the backend of a website once or twice.
Learn from your older colleagues – after all, it is experience we’re after and they have it.
Teach your colleagues what you know about technology and new trends. The more they can know and learn from you, the more they’ll trust and respect you.
Challenge yourself. There’s a lot you still don’t know – be open to learning it.
Speak up, but don’t overstep. This is a tricky one. This is a “know when to speak” kind of word of advice. Offer your ideas, because as obvious as it may seem, not everyone thinks like you and it may not have been thought of before.
Never think something isn’t your responsibility because it wasn’t in your “job description”. Go above and beyond. It’s usually noticed, and if it’s not, at least you know you’re doing your absolute best.
Don’t let people take advantage of you. Paving your way often leads to doing things for others to either fill time gaps or prove your worth, while this is great, know when to say no – you’re not everyone’s assistant.
Ask questions. No one grows by doing the same thing all day, every day. Keep learning from those around you as well as other resources.
Read. You hear it from your professors and guest speakers all the time. “The most successful people read every day”. Not only is reading one of the best ways to learn, but it’s also a way to calm down, decompress and take your eyes off a screen for a while. Additionally, reading for fun or leisure is much more enjoyable when there’s no school deadline attached to it.
Make time for fun. Don’t get so caught up in trying to prove yourself that you forget about taking care of yourself. Enjoy your time off and make time for it. Burnout is popular among ambitious young professionals – work for a living, don’t live for work.
Your first “real job” is terrifying, but also an exciting opportunity. Establish that you deserve to be there and you are ready to handle any task that is thrown your way. Once you get through the door and have the job, it’s not all downhill from there. Quite the opposite actually, now it’s time to work your ass off. Good luck!
Many young adults in university are often asked what they
want to do after graduation. A common answer most of the time is to travel
before they must settle down. For a lot of people, making sure they have the
best experience on their trip is revolved around how they budget and plan. From
my traveling experiences myself and asking my friends Alyssa and Sarah, we’ve
easily found that these aren’t the most important things. Luckily for you, I
was able to put together what I thought were the most valuable lessons my
friends and I learned from our travels that we wished we would have known before,
so you don’t have to do it the hard way and learn yourself.
1. Take Time to Learn the Language and Culture
No matter where you go even just learning how to say hello
or things like please and thank you can change how you are seen and treated by
locals. Learning a couple words can give you advantages in a lot of situations.
Lucky for us there are many free apps that work without wi-fi that you can
carry with you. One of my favorites is DuoLingo. Or as Sarah says, “download
google translate, don’t let language barrier scare you! They make for such
great stories and a way to expericnce a different culture!”. There is nothing
worse than trying to ask for help from someone who doesn’t understand you and
that you don’t understand and making yourself frustrated. Going along with
language, if you pick up or hear about cultural cues certain places may have,
don’t be afraid to use them and show that you have respect for their culture or
country while you are there. You are their guest and more people are likely to
help you and if they notice you are being respectful.
2. Don’t be Afraid to Talk to Locals
Going hand in hand with downloading an app or trying to
learn some of the language, locals know more about the place you’re in than the
internet does. When you are in a new of different place, locals will end up
being your best friends. Most the time you will learn about the best
restaurants or the most satisfying things to do in that specific area when you
ask the people who live there for suggestions. Touristy things are fun to do
and partake in, but don’t plan your whole trip around them. Take time to find things that will be the most
enjoyable to you and your experience in a new and exciting place. Having your
own unique experiences in a place that others may not have had the chance to
have will make your trip so much more valuable to you.
3. Be Open to Change
if you plan everything out, the chances of you having a perfect trip is
unrealistic. If you plan your whole trip out ahead of time, it may end up
closing a lot of opportunities you could have had. Some of the greatest
experiences that come from traveling are those that weren’t meant to happen and
are spontaneous without prior planning. When asking my friend Alyssa about her
travels and a piece of advice she wanted to share was to “be okay with disappointment. Just because you’ve always
wanted to go somewhere and just because everyone else goes somewhere doesn’t
necessarily mean it’s good. Some of the best memories are ones that no one else
4. Hostels are Your Friends
When you’re traveling, alone or with people don’t be scared
to stay in hostels. Hostels get a bad reputation for being dirty or sketchy,
but sometimes they can be nicer than some hotels in certain places and it’s a
great way to meet people. People who are staying in hostels are usually by
themselves traveling and are always looking to make new friends. Not to mention
being able to have a connection with someone they usually have valuable stories
to share and recommendations on things to do and not do while you are visiting
place, which can be very helpful to you in the future. Not only are hostels
usually extremely inexpensive, but they even may provide meals when you are
staying which can help you save money to use for other things on your trip.
5. Pack Light and Pack Smart
Being an over packer myself, it took me a couple tries until
I finally realized I don’t need to have a different outfit every day. When you
look back on your trip you won’t think about the outfits you had, but you will
remember your experience. Don’t forget that you can buy things as you go, and
laundromats exist in a lot of different countries. You also don’t have to lug
around a huge suitcase everywhere you go. Less is always more when traveling. Try
not to take your passport or wallet with you anywhere unless you really need
it, and if you do need it make sure its in an extremely safe place. Alyssa
likes to use pre-paid cards whenever she goes places so if it does get stolen,
its not all her money in one place. All banks have access to give you these and
its easier to load money onto a temporary card then must cancel every card you
brought with you that may have been stolen or misplaced.
6. Don’t be Afraid to Travel Alone
Traveling alone allows you to do the things that you want to do. When you are with a group or friends you are more likely to do things that you don’t find interesting or may feel like you are wasting part of your trip. Even if you are with your friends Alyssa says “if you really want to do something, but no one wants to go with you don’t sacrifice that for something else or cop out and stay in. Being alone gives you time to relax and reset which is hard to do if you’re constantly around people”. Use your time on your trip the way it will be most beneficial to you and that you will get the best experience for yourself. Wherever your travels take you, always make it something enjoyable for yourself and use it as a learning opportunity to grow as a person. If you need time alone and are traveling with friends, take that time for yourself! From the words of my friend Sarah, “The imperfections, the shortcomings, they’re the best part of travel. Traveling puts you in tough situations that help you grow, put you out of your comfort zone and push you to be creative. Things go wrong and things go great, and it all makes for an overall phenomenal experience and something to look back on”.
Thank you to my friends Alyssa and Sarah for sharing their experiences with me! Follow their travels and Instagram’s here!